Many people in Israel are now afflicted with Election Fever. This "malady"" causes people who support different political parties to verbally attack each other. This is classic Lashon Hara V' Sinat Chinom. How can we avoid falling into the vicious cycle?

The Chofetz Chaim offers a profound explanation of the root of Sinat Chinom and Lashon Hara. The catalyst of discord is the focus on points of dissimilarity between us, to the exclusion of the things we have in common. Another person may have many wonderful qualities, but we don't see them because we are so zeroed in on the components of the other person's personality that we detest.

For example, Mister A. can't stand Mr. B. because Mr. B. is an avowed Likud member, and Mr. A. is a diehard member of Labor. Mr. B. may be generous and pleasant, but Mr. A. cannot see past the fact that B. supports a different political party.

Lashon Hara results from focusing on another's negative traits and not seeing his positive qualities. When we cannot see beyond the things that irk us about his personality, we may feel the need to share those negative feelings with others. The Torah warns that one who speaks Lashon Hara will be afflicted with Tzoraas. What is the Middah K'neged Middah here? A person who has Tzoraas may be 99% healthy. There may be only one small blotch of Tzoraas on his skin. Yet that one blotch renders him a Metzora, totally unclean. The one percent of afflicted skin defines him, just as he defined another person by focusing on the 1% of his personality that he dislikes.

The Hebrew word Machloket (dispute) is derived from the word Chelek (part), for one involved in a dispute sees only part of the picture. My Rebbe, Rabbi Avraham Pam Ztl, noted that it is our responsibility to constantly espouse the merits and virtues of Klal Yisrael. The Tanna D'Bei Eliyahu speaks about the intense pleasure G-d has when we speak kindly of our fellow Jews. Rabbi Pam bemoaned the fact that it is common to hear people speaking about the spiritual degeneration of our times.

However, we must realize that G-d derives no pleasure from such negative speech. Rabbi Pam added, "Perhaps this malady is one of the causes of the delaying of Moshiach."

It is analogus to a father who has a wayward son, who causes the father much heartache and grief. If a person approaches the father and tells him about some negative behavior that the son is involved in, it will cause the father great anguish, even though the father is aware of his son's wicked behavior. However, if the person would tell the father how his son helped and acted kindly to him, the father would be extremely appreciative.

So too, G-d waits to hear words of defense and merit on behalf of Jews, especially by other Jews. It is not a matter of being blind to the truth of our faults but a matter of focus and perspective. What do you chose to see? Unless you have the ability to correct and rectify evils that are committed by others, you should not speak negatively about other Jews. Rather, we must seek out their positive traits and focus on them.

There are undoubtedly many serious challenges confronting the Jewish world. However, there is no shortage of merits that we possess either. It is all a matter of perspective.

Let us focus on seeing the glass as half full instead of half empty. Let us learn to agree to disagree with respect and cordiality.